here I would like to bring out a few situations that might seem familiar to you.

1.) When you gossip about someone... your consequence tells you it's wrong, but you still gossip anyways. You had fun gossiping about others that you forgot what are the good times you had together n the things they have done for you. You avoid yourself from feeling guilty so you just emphasize on the bad things that happened.

2.) When you see an old lady tripped and fell down on the floor or a kid crying because he/she lost their parents... if you're reading it here now you might say of course I will help them, but.... every time I see situations like these.. people just tend to stare and walk away, unless there was someone who went to help then you'll walk over "as if you're concern".

3.) The 3 famous ratings your Friends, Family and Lover. example: When you clearly said that Friends is number 1~ please don't say it if you can't do it... Some can tell you that you're their best friend but they forget your birthday, they disappear when you need help, they don't respect you and they get you into trouble, if any of these 3 can be number 1 in your heart means you're willing to sacrifice for them, love them and appreciate them.

4.) When you found someone you have connection with, you immediately think that you love the person when it's just a silly crush. If you can't get him/her you emo all the time can't eat can't sleep asking why can't I be the one. If you do succeed being with him/her, you start getting all selfish, when friends are talking to them you think that their flirting, you don't like them going out without you and you always start arguments with him/her for very minor problems. All those are definitely NOT LOVE, to know whether you really love the person is when you feel heart broken but you don't feel sad because you would want them to be happy instead of just being yours, you would give them freedom and trust them when their with friends or acquaintances .

5.) When you litter plastic bags or papers everywhere you know it's bad... someone has to clean it up for you.. or little kids get influences from it to be "cool"... people from overseas will have a bad image for our country... n of course global warming. You think neglecting issues like these are being cool? Get a reality check please.

6.) When you see a really cute puppy or kitten.. you want them so badly n annoy your parents to buy them, and when they did.. you play with them like toys never wonder is it painful for them n you don't feed them or bathe them.. soon when they get bigger you'll think eww not cute anymore n start ignoring them n treating them like garbage.

These are not minor cases... if you continue it all the time it becomes a really big attitude problem, mind yourself please.